He had a website, a Facebook page, a Google listing, and he was posting regularly. His employee suggested running some Facebook ads because things were a little quiet. After three or four weeks, the results were in: two enquiries and one small repair job.
He binned it.
When we eventually spoke, he asked me the exact question you are probably asking right now. “Why is my marketing not working even though I am doing everything right?”
My first question was not about his ads, his website, or his content calendar. It was this: how many clients have you actually picked up through Facebook, without advertising?
He did not know. He guessed none.
So I told him to go away and find out. Ask the next ten customers, face to face, how they heard about you. Not a survey. Not a form. Just ask.
Seven were word of mouth. Two came from a flyer he had placed in the local Chinese takeaway. One came from a local advertising booklet he had paid for six months ago and completely forgotten about.
Not a single one came from Facebook.
The scattergun problem
This is the pattern I see again and again with small business owners. They spread themselves too thin. Facebook ads, Google ads, local newsletter ads, a bit of SEO, some social media posting. A scattergun approach, often without knowing what they are actually aiming at.
The problem is rarely that they are not doing enough. The problem is that the pieces are not connected, and nobody has stopped to check what is actually working.
Most small businesses market where they think they should, not where their customers actually come from.
Step one: stop guessing
The first thing I get any business owner to do is brutally simple. Find out where your customers come from right now. Not guess. Know.
There are two ways to do this. You can ask directly (the next ten customers who walk through the door, ask them: “How did you hear about us?”). Or you can add a short question to whatever form or process happens before the work gets done. One line. “How did you find us?” That is it.
Once you have that information, everything changes. Because the second step is not to go and find a new marketing channel. It is to double down on the one that is already working.
Double down on what works
If seven out of ten customers are coming from word of mouth, the question is not “how do I get more from Facebook?” The question is “how do I get more word of mouth?”
Are you asking happy customers for referrals? Is there an incentive for them to introduce friends and family? Are you making it easy for them to recommend you?
Take that flyer in the Chinese takeaway. It was already generating business. But it was passive. It had no call to action, no tracking, no incentive. Imagine if it had said: “For a 10% discount on your car service, quote ‘Happy Choice takeaway.'”
Now you have turned a passive flyer into a trackable, incentivised referral. You know exactly how many customers it brings in. And the takeaway owner is happy because their customers are getting a deal.
It is much easier to generate new clients from routes you are already successful at than to start from scratch on a channel you have never made work.
Before you spend a penny on ads
I always explain two things to business owners who want to start running paid advertising.
First: finding new customers from cold advertising is the most difficult thing you can do. The potential customer is going through a whole series of decisions when using a company for the first time. Can I trust them? Are they any good? Will they turn up? Are they going to overcharge me? Finding new customers through channels you are already familiar with is much easier, because you already know what questions they have and what reservations they might be experiencing.
Second: if you are going to spend money on advertising, there cannot be any leaks in your marketing bucket.
If a customer wants to book a service while sat at home on a Sunday night, your process better work for him. If he has made the decision to call you and nobody answers the phone, you have lost him. And probably every friend in his immediate circle.
If somebody asks you to quote a price for some work and you do not follow up with them within a few days, you are wasting every pound you spent getting them to contact you in the first place. Paid ads have their place. But only after the business owner has a watertight customer process.
What happens when you plug the leaks
A financial adviser I work with was missing calls while he was in meetings with clients. After one meeting, he checked his phone. Five missed calls.
When he returned them, four of the five had already found another adviser to work with. They had left messages asking him to call back. But by the time he did, they had moved on.
We set up a Voice AI receptionist for him. He liked the control of answering his own calls, so we only turned it on when he was in meetings. The agent answered calls, dealt with questions, checked his availability and booked appointments directly into his calendar.
After six weeks, we reviewed his calendar. Twelve appointments had been booked by the AI agent while he was busy closing deals.
More clients. Less effort. No extra marketing spend. Just a leak that got plugged.
The seven questions to ask yourself this week
If you want to know whether your marketing is actually working or just keeping you busy, answer these honestly:
- How quickly does a missed call get replied to?
- What happens if a lead comes in over the weekend?
- Are quotes and prices followed up within a few days?
- Can website visitors get answers in real time, or do they have to wait for someone to respond to a contact form?
- Where do your current leads actually come from?
- Are existing customers being asked for referrals?
- Is there an incentive for happy customers to introduce friends and family?
If you cannot answer all seven with confidence, your marketing is not broken. Your process is.
And the good news is that fixing the process is usually faster, cheaper, and more effective than spending more on ads.
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