A friend of mine ordered a new kitchen from a cold telephone sales call. At the time, I was selling kitchens for a small company. Two things about that conversation have stayed with me ever since.
First, he knew I sold kitchens. I had told him a month earlier. He just never thought of me when the moment came.
Second, when the cold caller rang, he and his wife had literally just been discussing getting a new kitchen. He put the phone down, looked at her and said, “How did they know we needed a new kitchen?”
They did not know. They just called. And because they called at the right moment, they won the business. I did not, because I mentioned it once and moved on.
That is the entire case for follow-up in two sentences. You never know when the timing is right. So you keep showing up until they either say yes or tell you to stop.
The real reason most businesses give up too early
It is not laziness, exactly. It is the feast-and-famine cycle.
When business is quiet, the owner hustles. They chase leads, pick up the phone, send follow-up emails. It works. Enquiries turn into jobs. The diary fills up.
Then the focus shifts from finding work to doing work. The follow-up drops off. The pipeline dries up. And when it does, the owner skips straight back to lead generation, spending money on ads or marketing, instead of going back to the follow-up that actually filled the diary in the first place.
I see it constantly. A mortgage adviser I worked with had always taken the view that there were plenty of leads. If this one did not convert, he would move on to the next one. It worked fine until a new adviser was added to his team and the number of new leads coming his way reduced.
I asked him how often he followed up with people who did not make an instant decision to go ahead. He said, “Rarely.”
I tasked him with making two follow-up calls after each initial conversation. The results came quickly. More of those “maybe later” leads turned into actual clients. But then, because he was busier, the follow-ups started dropping off again. The same cycle.
So we made one of those two follow-ups an automated text message. That became his standard approach, and it stuck, because the system did not stop working just because he got busy.
So how many times should you follow up?
There is no magic number that works for every business. A plumber following up on a boiler quote is different from a mortgage adviser chasing an illustration. But in general terms, a minimum of three follow-ups after the initial contact is sensible. Five or more is not unreasonable.
Most businesses stop at one. Some manage two. Almost none reach five. That is the gap your competitors are walking through.
A few practical rules that I give to every business owner I work with:
Use the channel they contacted you through. If they filled in a web form with their email and mobile number, use both. If they came through Facebook, a retargeting campaign alongside your direct follow-up keeps you visible. Meet them where they already are.
Text beats phone for most people. Younger customers especially are more likely to read and respond to a text than answer a call from an unknown number. Older customers may still prefer a call. Know your audience.
Strike while the iron is hot. Your first follow-up should be fast. The second within a couple of days. Then space them out, but do not disappear.
Keep it human. The text that works is not “We noticed you have not completed your application.” It is, “This is Neil from XYZ. Is this the same John that asked us for more information on mortgages a little while ago?” That does not feel like selling. It feels like checking in.
“But I do not want to be pushy”
This is the objection I hear most often. “If they wanted to go ahead, they would have called me back.”
My response is always the same. If they did not want you to contact them, they would tell you.
The customer gave you permission to reach out when they made that first enquiry. They can withdraw it any time. Until they do, there is always a reason to follow up.
Think about my kitchen story. My friend did not think of me, even though he knew I sold kitchens. The cold caller who rang at the right moment won the job. If I had just mentioned it one more time, casually, that business might have been mine.
You do not know when the timing is right. That is exactly why you keep following up.
Good intentions last about a week. Systems last forever.
Here is the truth. Even the owner who reads this and thinks “right, I am going to follow up properly from now on” will have stopped doing it within a fortnight. Not because they do not care, but because they are a plumber or a mortgage adviser or an electrician, not a marketer. Follow-up is a job they would ideally employ someone else to do.
With AI and automation, they do not need to employ anyone. A simple system that sends follow-up texts and emails on a set sequence, books calendar appointments, answers questions and handles queries does not stop because it is not in the mood, had a late night, or went on holiday. It only needs to be set up once. The quality does not vary based on how it is feeling that day.
That means having a system matched to how your leads come in. Lots of web form enquiries? A knowledge base agent handles the initial response and captures the detail. Quotes and illustrations sitting with potential clients? A follow-up agent chases them on a schedule so nothing falls through the cracks.
The purpose is simple. Let the business owner focus on what they are best at while the system picks up the jobs that always get left behind.
Where to start
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